July 10, 2008
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Most of the people really don’t think they do and are mostly occupied by their feelings and emotions. This is applicable to Christian singles too while using dating services.
Are there any criteria for you while meeting Christian singles? People using Christian dating sites go for the physical criteria, income, staying in same place, security, etc. In the profiles we view, the criteria cannot be fulfilled completely. Sometimes this brings unhappiness in the user and this might bring devastating results in their life.
You find so many Christian singles with their own criteria for perfect partner. These people would not find the perfection from the millions of profiles on dating sites. It is a very sad thing to learn. This behavior is shown both by single Christian women and single Christian men.
Most of singles have unreal expectations. I remember my friend from college, he had unbelievable descriptions of the type of woman he wanted in his life. He used to have his criteria list of several pages long. This had made his relationship go with women not more than week. What I want to say is look at you in front of a mirror and analyzes yourself. Think what you are and what you have so others will be happy to start a relationship with you. No one is perfect in looks and in behaviour.Read to accept people with good heart.
This doesn’t mean that you should go keep your desire aside but to consider the criteria you are using. Invite your friends singles and married, to describe the person that would match you. Listen them and measure it against your criteria dating. Generally the criteria used dating is less important after the marriage. In real relationship, these criteria have nothing to do. It is the character, caring and love that binds the couple strongly to the long journey of life.
You may be serious in your criteria dating, but this is no use in real relationship, rather it may take you away from the relationship God might want to establish in this earth. In a long journey of life, you accept your partner what s/he is and try to smooth the relationship with love and care.
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